In loving memory of

Tarsen Tarsen Boy

c. 2019 — 29 July 2026

Careful with the world, full of energy, and entirely his own.

Tarsen står opmærksom med sine hvide poter og sit store hvide bryst
His story

Who he was

Tarsen was shy. He ran from loud noises, found the highest hiding places, and watched the world from a distance. But he also knew exactly when a person should not be alone.

Four small stories

What made him Tarsen

Not the big events. The repeated, strange, loving little moments that slowly became a whole life together.

Tarsen ligger trygt og afslappet i et blødt tæppe
He could tell when someone needed company.
01 — He could tell

He knew when to stay

Tarsen was not a cat who demanded the world. But when Jonas had a hard day and felt alone, he came. He didn't need to do anything special. He simply stayed, and his company made all the difference.

“When I felt alone, he came to me and stayed with me.”
Tarsen sidder højt oppe på et skab
A safe spot above the rest of the world.
02 — The high places

The drums sounded like thunder

When Jonas played the drums, Tarsen was gone in a heartbeat. He fled the noise and found a hiding place — preferably a high one, where he could keep an eye on everything without being seen.

He was a fearful cat. That was never something to fix. It was part of how he moved through the world, and the family came to know his small safe places.

Tarsen ligger med sit legetøj
Toys rarely lived long.
03 — All that energy

Everything was for playing. Nearly everything was for eating.

He was fast, especially when the fish toy came out. He played until things broke — a bit like Jonas did with his own things. And his appetite had very little respect for what actually counted as food.

Rubber. Broccoli. Apparently most things were worth a taste.
Tarsen ligger ved et vindue og ser ud
By the window, with the world on the other side.
04 — His places

The room changed owners. He didn't.

He loved Julia's room. When she moved out it became Jonas's room, but to Tarsen it remained one of his places. He also had the window at the parents' end of the house, and every high point a home could offer.

Rooms change. People move. A cat decides for himself what still belongs to him.

Sky betyder ikke fjern.
Han elskede bare forsigtigt.

Tarsen Boy

This is only a small selection. The full archive holds all 123 unique photos and 19 videos of Tarsen from his life.

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The archive

Full archive

All 123 photos and 19 videos from Tarsen's life — kittenhood, the friends, the family, the toys and all of his places. The photos and videos from his last day are kept separately under The last day, behind an active choice.

19 short films

Light a candle for him

A small sign that he still has a place in a room, in a home, and in the people who remember him.

A quiet goodbye

The last day

The last pictures are also part of Tarsen's story. They are not shown without your active choice.

Sensitive pictures

They show the clinic, the family's goodbye, and the time after Tarsen's death.

Tarsen hviler med poterne foran sig

c. 2019 — 2026

Thank you for everything, Tarsen Boy.

You were here. You were loved.
You are missed.

Before you continue

The next pictures show Tarsen's last day at the clinic, the family's goodbye, and the time after his death. They are loving, not graphic, but they can be hard to look at.

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